Life Perceptions

  We Came A Long Way From the first glance to only noticing you at this moment,  we came a long way; From keeping distance to ensuring that there is no distance,  we came a long way; From lowering your eyes on my sight till not seeing anyone except me,  you came a long way; From asking did you eat, to savouring ur taste buds with my cooking skill, I came a long way; From diplomatically trying to take sides and be politically correct,  to fiercely being protective of each other,  we came a long way; From slighting touching hands accidently to holding hands tightly,  we came a long way; From wishing to smooch till claiming each other’s lips possessively,  we came a long way; From desiring and wishing to stubbornly demanding,  you came a long way; From not being aware of your existence to miss you at the slightest instance,  I came a long away; From closing ourselves behind the garbs of traditions to fulfilling what the heart truly desires,...

My contacts who are acquainted with me, know that I had always been a fiction writer, who periodically wrote only about fiction. Writing about emotions, love stories, relationships, imaginary things was natural to me without an additional effort. So when I decided to write the #PowerOf23# series, I was apprehensive as till this month I had never ventured writing on Non-Fictional content so far as I believed Non-Fiction Content to be topic of experts, eminent professionals in the field of psychology, human behaviour studies and/or professionals from Human Resource Background, in general who are excellent public speakers, blessed with the power of vocabulary, understanding, reasoning, creativity and positive thoughts. Thankfully, I expressed my anxiousness to my friend Suchitra Kamble and she advised me to focus on writing my experience, my thoughts, my feelings rather than focusing on world, focusing on the content or vocabulary and how it will be perceived by the world at large. Writin...

Love, the feeling, attraction, emotion which can’t be denied. It is something which happens unexpectedly. Is it possible to fall in love at first sight? Highly impossible, as love evolves over a period of time. Love is when the first impressions are confirmed over timely repeated behaviour and actions by the other person, when one has the ability to understand and experience attraction, when attachment and emotions for someone enhances as time elapses. With this thought, let’s start with our @PowerOf23 series on today’s topic as which are those qualities that makes one fall for someone? 1.Intelligence : Intelligence is highest attribute to fall for someone. Looks take a backseat to a person’s wit. An intelligent person will have a wide range of topics to discuss. Moreover they would also be creative and problem solvers as they would have ability to think several solutions for a problem faced. 2.Humble: People who have a head on their shoulders are quick thinkers and problem solvers. Hu...

"Life is what happens to us while we are making other plans" - John Allen Saunders! We all have something in our past that we wish we could have done differently, or something we wish we didn’t do. We are all busy. Days pass by. Life happens. As we get older, we learn, grow and we realise it’s better to regret doing things rather than not doing it at all. Let’s continue with our @PowerOf23 Series wherein I am putting down few regrets which will haunt you in life and the best thing to do is act on it now. 1.Giving up on Love: It’s said True Love waits for ever. In real life, practicality takes over you and you move on. Yet, years down the line, you may realise that had you waited for the one you truly cared, life would have been different. The fear of rejection in addition makes one afraid to say “I love you.” Loving another person is a precious gift, even if love isn’t reciprocated, however not having courage to say it to the one at the right time can be the life greatest r...

“Close some doors today. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because they lead you nowhere.”―Paulo Coelho The above quote is one of my Life’s Teaching which I believe in. Life in its unique way teaches you many things which we often tend to forget unless we pen it down. On this thought process, let’s express thoughts on Life Teachings. For the Past 19 days, Every Day I have been writing long write up/ my thoughts on different topics which has been appreciated, informed to me by few of you either by liking my post, posting comments or by individual call and text. Today, let me sum up my thoughts in simple concise manner point wise to understand whether I can pen down by thoughts in simple pointer/ sentences. So, today, continuing with our @PowerOf23 Series, I wish to present to you few thoughts which are Life Teachings for me, which motivate me, guide me when negative thoughts cloud mind. Even if one of this thought does makes a difference to your thinking then i...

Your better half isn't likely to change just because you got married, so it's important to know what your deal breakers are before you walk down the aisle. We all have our negative habits but if you are thinking of marrying someone who drinks heavily when upset, is moody and has fits of rage, stay away as those traits wont disappear when you marry. Even marrying someone who is a home person while you love party could be a factor in causing stress in a marriage. Marriages are made in heaven and broken on Earth, so it is of paramount importance to know which are those things which you and your better half should be in consensus with before you commit to the word “Marriage.” With this thought, lets proceed with our #PowerOf23 # series for today on 23 Things To Concur On Before You Say “I Do!” 1.Finance: Make sure you have the same financial priorities. While savers and spenders can happily coexist, it's important to have same view on your longer-term financial goals to keep y...

“Every man dies — Not every man really lives.” - William Ross Every Individual has a Bucket list which one wishes to tick off before he/she dies. Hey! Why talk of death, let’s say Every Individual has a Bucket List- a list of items one wishes to accomplish in Life! What exactly is a Bucket List? Bucket List is a list of goals, dreams and aspirations that you would like to accomplish within your lifetime. The basic meaning of a bucket list is to keep track of your goals and to take steps to achieve them in order to maximize the incredible experiences in your life. “It’s kind of fun to do the impossible. -Walt Disney” Bucket list could be a combination of aspirations and life goals or it could simply be to be unique, stand apart & to have a bucket list of combination of goals and aspirations which no one has achieved so far, to do impossible, to be happy. With this thought, lets proceed with our #PowerOf23 # series for today:- 1.Become a published author: To have one’s name in print...

“Children are like Wet Cement. Whatever Falls on Them Makes an Impression - Haim Ginott!” “If parents want to give their children a gift, the best thing they can do is to teach their children to love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy effort, and keep on learning. That way, their children don’t have to be slaves of praise. They will have a lifelong way to build and repair their own confidence - Carol S. Dweck!” It’s the duty of each parent to ensure that the education formal as well as informal which they impart to their child prepares the child for the Real World. With this wonderful Thought, let us continue with our #PowerOF23 # series wherein we list down those 23 Things To Teach Your Children to Prepare them for Future 1.Ask Why: To be inquisitive. To question everything. To not accept things blindly. 2.Dream Big: “Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is limited. Imagination encircles the world - Albert Einstein!” To dream big. Grades are your entry ti...