PowerOf23# Day 22 - 23 Attributes that Makes One Fall in Love!!"

Love, the feeling, attraction, emotion which can’t be denied. It is something which happens unexpectedly. Is it possible to fall in love at first sight? Highly impossible, as love evolves over a period of time. Love is when the first impressions are confirmed over timely repeated behaviour and actions by the other person, when one has the ability to understand and experience attraction, when attachment and emotions for someone enhances as time elapses.

With this thought, let’s start with our @PowerOf23 series on today’s topic as which are those qualities that makes one fall for someone?

1.Intelligence : Intelligence is highest attribute to fall for someone. Looks take a backseat to a person’s wit. An intelligent person will have a wide range of topics to discuss. Moreover they would also be creative and problem solvers as they would have ability to think several solutions for a problem faced.

2.Humble: People who have a head on their shoulders are quick thinkers and problem solvers. Humble people are the ones who visualise their strength and weakness accurately.

3.Confidence: There is a fine line between being attractively confident and over-confident. Having confidence means you value yourself, you know yourself well, and you take pride in setting the standards.

4.Success: Succesful people are highly attractive as it means you know what you want and how you want it. You have the intellect to plan and achieve and a capacity to take risks, as all wins are backed by calculated risks which were perceived once upon a time as impossible by others.

5.Hard To Get: Being not easily accessible is also one of the thing which is considered attractive. It’s human psyche that the harder someone has to work for something, the more they are going to value it. However careful, being too much pricey can repeal too.

6.Dependability: Dependability is crucial. When you know you can rely on someone that person becomes highly attractive.

7.Having similar preference: Opposites may attract initially but in the long run we all crave similarity of us in our life partner. This leads to less conflicts, less drama and more stability.

8.Emotional Stability: How Emotionally empathic one is, is seen the manner of communication, whether one is capable of understanding feelings of others and whether one respect other person’s wants.

9.Smile: A genuine smile can make you fall for someone.

10.Eyes: So do eyes. Deep clear eyes can be attractive and a reason enough to start with, whether the person could be trusted.

11.Conversationalist: The ability to strike a conversation, intellectually logically debate can be one of the reason for you to fall in love.

12.Kindness: Needless to say, this never goes out of vogue. Being kind will make you far more attractive. It’s not just the person you want to attract that you should be kind too but to everyone around you.

13.Non Judgemental, Respectful: Non judgemental people are supportive, sensitive. Ideal partners treat each other with respect and sensitivity. Such people respect differences. Such people do not try to control each other with threatening or manipulative behavior. The one to Live and Let Live type who don’t judge you for the way you are.

14.Honest:In relationships hard conversations need to be had and if the person respects you will have those with you. A real person will step up even when it’s uncomfortable because he/she knows the relationship, and you, are worth it. Nothing is more destructive between two people than dishonesty.

15.Good Communication Skills and ability to communicate openly : Needless to say this is the highest attraction to win over someone as well as to save difficult situations.

16.Sense of Humour : A sense of humor can be a lifesaver.A good sense of humor definitely eases the tense moments.

17.Takes Responsibility: Responsible people are highly attractive as it gives a sense of what the future with him/ her looks like.

18.Maturity: Matured people are highly attractive as it means the person has evolved as a person and isn’t looking for someone to compensate for shortcomings.

19.Space: Giving space to each other in a relationship matters.

20.Passion: Having a hobby and being passionate about it impresses a lot. People with hobbies such as surfing, photography, golfing are interesting as they have something in life to be passionate about.

21.Being Strong as well as vulnerable: Being strong is required but being vulnerable is also a good reason for someone to fall in love with you as they know you depict an emotional side behind the strengths you display.

22.Attentiveness: The fact that the person is there for you, attentive to you and see what you need is a great quality and it suggests longevity. We want many things in a relationship but mostly, we want someone who will be attentive and know when to be there for us.

23.Independent: A person who takes good care of himself/herself, has hobbies, friends, career and is confident to look after himself/ herself is attractive as it means that one is capable of taking care of oneself and is not too clingy and is confident.

Well, the attributes listed above is my perception and my thoughts. Let me know what are yours!

(C) Prachee Kamat @PowerOf23 @PowerOfPositivity @BeliefOfAWoman @BeingAStrongWoman @BeingHappy @LifeIsGood